Sometimes people can be just “too f–king real” (Foxy Brown, “Oh Yeah”).

Did I really need to know that Babs used a strap-on on some dudes? Really? She just had to take it there. What’s next, a tell all book on who she did in the industry? 

Why is sexual preference even anyone’s concern in the entertainment industry? Shouldn’t it be about talent at the end of the day?

By the way, is it even a surprise that Babs liked both? To each their own, but I just think she’s just being greedy lol.

I’m probably going to say what has already been said, like, why hasn’t anyone come down on this guy Antwan Cook yet? Is he not also responsible? 

Why is it that whenever a woman gets caught in a scandal involving a man who is married or (supposedly) separated but not quite divorced (cough, cough, Alicia Keys, Gabrielle Union), no one ever comes down on the man? It does take two to tango, last time I checked. Now, unless the woman already knows that the man is married, then we can call her all types of jezebels, harlots, tramps, etc. and every other name in the book. But if she didn’t know and this man is feeding her lies (I would like to believe that Fantasia really didn’t know that this man was still married), then is she still a homewrecker? 

I also find it really odd and a tad bit opportunistic of the ex-wife to now claim that there is a sex tape  with Fantasia and this man. Had it not been Fantasia and it was some regular woman that this guy is fooling around with, we would have never heard about it or clamoring to see a sex tape. But because it’s Fantasia……..

Also, no disrespect to T-Mobile, but come on! What happened to dating within your circle? Fantasia could have done so much better than a T-Mobile sales representative. Really! How did she go from Young Dro to a phone sales rep? DOWNGRADE!  There is plenty of fish in the sea, but to almost take your life over some regular man? Please!

OK, so I just went off on a tangent, but no man is worth taking your life. I understand that the scandal is overwhelming her. But there is another way to handle it. It’s just not worth it. She just needs to learn to choose wisely next time around. Get that tattoo of his name removed. Do a background check. And don’t make any sex tapes!

What I like most about Erykah Badu is that she just has this sense of style that is unusual, eclectic. I really like that she can just go there and not give a dayum what anyone else has to say about her style.

I think the blonde compliments her eyes, not a lot of people can pull it off.

But never mind me; you like or you hate? More pics:

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Seriously, the shiny suits went out in the 90′s. Diddy doesn’t even wear them anymore!

I’m beginning to think that Keith Sweat is taking this “platinum” thing a bit too far, being that the name of the reality show is “Platinum House” (does anyone watch that show with Dru Hill?).

I don’t know why Keith Sweat decided to wear this to BB Kings. Honestly it looks like he’s wearing some silky aluminum foil. I will give him this much, at least he’s still performing. If he stands under those lights any longer, he might end up popping like Jiffy Pop or something LOL….

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(pics from Wire Image)

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Don’t ask me why, but the 80′s song “The Rain” by Oran “Juice” Jones (“I saw you…and him….walking in the rain”) came into my mind when I saw this cover for Trey Songz new album cover. It also looks like he might want some “sex in the rain”. Don’t ask me why that came to mind either.

Sigh.

Sadly we are living in the era of freak nasty music and Marques Houston gets straight to the point. He wants to “pull on her hair” and I am not up for that. Doesn’t he know that pulling on the hair leads to traction alopecia (no edges)? He better watch it!

This song does nothing for me at all. He is whining-singing on Autotune and even though Rick Ross is on the song, you would think that it would save the day. It does not. Does it work for a strip club? Maybe. But I know this will not get me in the mood.

ROTFLMAO at the verse “if her hair’s too short, she can add more.” I assume that he’s going to buy her two packs of yaky perm hair. Hell, I’m not going to be wasting my money getting my hair done, just so that he can pull on it. GTFOH!

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I’m starting to feel bad for Damon Dash. Ever since him and Jay-Z parted ways, he’s just had it rough. Wife divorced him, fighting with the baby’s mama, and the list goes on. At the point, I’m waiting for TV One to do an episode of “Life After”, because he’s a mess.

“Dame Dash reportedly stopped paying a $78,504.20-per-month mortgage several months ago. Consequently, at 1:00pm today in the New York County Courthouse, his home is place for the scheduled foreclosure auction of Dash’s $7.9 million duplex.” (Source)

Well, I know I can’t make it down to the auction today, but if you want to see the info on the condo…..look below: 

Wonder if Jay-Z is going to help him out……then again, I think this is karma biting Damon Dash in the azz. All of those years of being arrogant and flashy will do that to you.

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Just like I can go in on Foxy Brown for being bloated, I can get on Janice Dickinson for being too damn skinny.

First of all, she’s 55. She’s done it all, there is no need to do anymore. What’s next, someone posing nude at 70? Frankly, I am tired of women over 40 who feel the need to bare it all, whether it’s Playboy or for some ad or a movie that requires nudity. As if to say ”I still got it!” We get it. You look great. All the yoga and pilates paid off. Bill Maher nailed it when he said that we applaud when a woman looks sexy after a certain age and we just buy it. The truth is, there comes a time when looks do fade and there is not enough Botox, saline or silicon to preserve the looks. There is a thing called gravity and it’s time to accept it.

But not Janice Dickinson. I do not need to see this. You don’t see Madonna prancing around half naked and she’s in her 50′s. At least she KNEW when to put her clothes back on and be respectable, she has 3 kids.

“She tells the new issue of Closer magazine: ‘I love my body, but it’s a compulsive obsession. I have to make sure I exercise and that the ingredients that go into my body are completely organic. I relax, meditate and do 80 minutes of yoga every day. I hike and make sure everything I eat is organic. I eat steamed fish, chicken and turkey, plus salads, carrot juice and supplements.’

Dickinson is a proud fan of cosmetic surgery after undergoing her first operation aged 32.

She explains: ‘There’s no such thing as too much. Whatever it takes to make an individual feel better, I’m all for it. Then in my 40s I signed up for Botox and now I have it every six months. My advisers say I should get rid of the neck. You can have an incision in the back of the neck that will tighten it up. Am I considering it? Always. I’m going to be the best looking corpse on the planet!’”

I really don’t care to know what she did to maintain the body, as that is what you are supposed to do, eat healthy and exercise. She is just too skinny and it looks like she’s about to keel over in those heels. I guess Janice still has something to prove. Newsflash: she may have been the “World’s First Supermodel”, but the last time I checked, they are not taking anyone at 55.  

(pic and source: Celebitchy)

A Virgo is supposed to look polished and flawless. Foxy Brown clearly is showing the opposite.

Is she on her “time of the month”? Is she pregnant? She looks so bloated and the leather outfit clearly doesn’t do her any justice whatsoever. I do not need to see her “Ill Na Na” in turquoise underwear (hey, at least she IS wearing underwear, unlike other celebrities, but that’s not the point).

And that weave……..I guess her and raggedy weaves will never part. Why can’t she invest in some good Remy hair or a lace front? Ugh!

Pam Grier needs to come and take back her title as Foxy Brown. Inga Marchand is clearly doing it all wrong.

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Ummm, but what took her so long? Tashera should have been gone the minute DMX fathered a child by another woman and claimed that the woman raped him.

“DMX’s wife Tashera Simmons has officially separated from the chart-topping rapper and is planning a reality show focusing on her rebuilding their family without him.

According to Simmons, the reality show is titled Tashera Simmons….Life After X and will give a firsthand account of how their family is coping with the rapper’s legal and drug problems and how they “cope with a husband and a father that has let them down over and over again.”

Additionally, Simmons is penning a tell-all memoir titled Tashera Simmons…Strength of A Woman, with author Aliya S. King.

“It’s not a tell-all, I want to clear that up. It’s a memoir, it’s a story about our life, my life, and our life together,” Simmons told AllHipHop.com in a press release announcing the reality show.

“My side of the story, because I feel like in his book, he didn’t really get into detail to better explain it,” Tashera Simmons stated. “I think reading my book, it explains everything. I’m talking about everything, from my childhood when I was abandoned by my mother and left to take care of my siblings, to when me and Earl (DMX) first met at 11 and we got together at 18 and I’m starting from there until then on…It’s a positive tell all.” (source)

I’m confused. She said it’s not a tell-all book, but yet she says it’s a positive tell all. Huh?

I find it a tad bit odd that Tashera now wants to do a reality show and write a book after separating from DMX. If she was going to do a reality show, why not do “Intervention” or “Celebrity Rehab”? I guess she really got tired of trying to save someone who doesn’t want to be saved.

As for DMX, he really needs to get it together! His career is in the toilet, his wife and kids are leaving him, what does it take for him to clean up and make a comeback? Whatever happened to that gospel album?

Cocaine is a helluva drug.

Seriously, The-Dream is now an uber-douche!

Now, I don’t know what happened between him and Christina Milian prior to him filing for divorce (HMPH, thought it would be Christina filing for divorce after seeing pics of him with the assistant) , nor do I want this to be a male bashing post, but what man in their right mind would file for a divorce 9 days BEFORE your wife gives birth? That has to be devastating. It supercedes breaking up via text or on a Post-it Note (like that Sex and the City episode).

All that rambling on his blog  about how he thought of killing himself and how much of a failure he and the marriage was doesn’t justify what he did as a man. Who knows if Christina Milian’s hormones were out of control during her pregnancy? Maybe he couldn’t deal with that? Maybe he was upset that her body might be out of shape after she gave birth? Maybe she wanted to do another “Bring it On” sequel? Just a thought…..

I know of two men who were running neck and neck with The-Dream. One guy told me that I shouldn’t have kids because my breasts would sag. Mind you, he had a child with a previous girlfriend and blatantly told her that her breasts were sagging and she didn’t look attractive. Another guy told me that his daughter was 3 weeks old and that he wasn’t with her mother anymore; which sounds to me like he broke up with her before she gave birth as well. Needless to say, they didn’t last long. I guess it was the a–hole in them that made them say and/or do those things. (I just had to get that out of the way.) 

And sometimes I wonder why we women say that men are no good. It’s because of pussification actions like The-Dream. Do I think people should stay together for the sake of the kids, even though they are unhappy? Not really. It’s just that the timing is all wrong. I don’t doubt that The-Dream will be involved in his daughter’s life, but how does one explain that he filed for divorce nine days before she was born? Really?

I just hope that he doesn’t do the Eddie Murphy and not see his child. We all know that episode all too well…..

Foxy is back to her old ways, I see…..telling neighbors to kiss her behind and mooning people. What is she, “New York”? (Don’t act like you didn’t see “Flavor of Love 2″.)

You would think that jail would humble her, calm her down and teach her a lesson. But no.

“Foxy Brown’s bare ass has suddenly become relevant again — after cops say the former platinum rapper bent over and mooned another woman in broad daylight yesterday.

Brown was arrested yesterday in NY for allegedly violating a protective order filed by one of her neighbors … allegations that Foxy flat out denies.

But in the official complaint, obtained by TMZ, the neighbor claims it all started when Foxy walked up to the neighbor’s home and began yelling, among other things, “You dirty bitch … what are you looking at?”

The neighbor then claims Foxy, “bent over and thrust [her] buttocks at the [neighbor] while shouting … ‘kiss my ass.’”

Brown is facing 6 criminal charges over the alleged incident, including public lewdness, criminal contempt, menacing and harassment.” (source)

I posted a food for thought moment on Facebook about people telling other people to kiss their behind and suggesting oral gratification when angry. Why do you want to invite me to your behind in the first place? Seriously.

I guess anger management is not in Foxy’s future.